Mama Son Day

Before the first day of school arrived, before we all got sick and sniffly and miserable, before the weather turned so very cool, before the return to the hectic days of homework and the tyranny of weekly schedules… My seven year old and I took some time off for one day, just the two of us.

Antique Cars

Flume

Fountain Flume

Lily Pad

Frogs

Carnivore

 

Deadly Dinner

Take A Peek

Downhill Engineer

Water Works

Up Up And Away

We walked all around the magnificent acres of the Heritage Museum and Gardens looking at cars, and playing in frog ponds (our favorite part, we think), wandering through the current exhibits, and discovering hidden hollows meant for exploring and building and getting wet and being a kid. He laughed and jumped and ran, stretching those legs of his and soaking up the last bit of clear summer sunshine as I walked more slowly, following his lead and letting him chose which paths to follow. He waited for me around the corners, unseen, and even when climbing up ahead, he checked back when he reached the summit, just a small glance and only once or twice, before running on

The most difficult, heartbreaking challenge of parenting isn’t about the number of times you’ve failed them, how often you’ve lost patience, how many fevered brows and scraped up knees you’ve kissed, or the growing pains you’ve witnessed but can not take away… it is learning how to let them go, bit by bit, even when you don’t know how and you’re not ready.

Hand Held

 

I hope, as he gets older and we experience more of those bumps and bruises known as the adolescent and teen years, that he remembers this day as fondly as I do. That maybe if he doesn’t exactly remember that moment he reached for my hand, that he’ll have internalized the knowledge that mine was there, waiting and ready, for his.

 

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13 thoughts on “Mama Son Day

  1. The most important job as a parent is teaching them to not need us. It’s the hardest job we face, yet the most gratifying when we see the wonderful adults they have become (prime example is writer of this blog :). Love ya Cheryl!

    • The most important job as a parent is teaching them to not need us. It’s the hardest job we face, yet the most gratifying when we see the wonderful adults they have become (prime example is writer of this blog :). Love ya Cheryl!
      Cheryl,
      This was my post. I just got this figured out again. I think.

      • No worries!! Even if you post anonymously I can usually see your email address so I knew it was you! 😉 Thanks Janet!

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